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  EMF Messages
 

1.How does the Express-EMF Mail Forwarding Service work?
2.What are the cool features of this service?
3.How much does it cost to send or receive an EMF mail?
4.Why do I need to pay for each reply from my lady?
5.Can I put down my contact information in my EMF mail?
6.Can I attach photos or files in my EMF mails?
7.How is my message delivered to my lady and how long?
8.How long will I receive the reply from my lady in ordinary case?
9.How does Chnsweetlady regulate CSL service providers to be honest when handling mails?
10.How do I do if I prefer not to receive the lady's reply?
11.Can I ask for the return of my credit if I feel dissatisfied with the reply from my lady?
12.I observed that there is a word limit for my EMF mail, could you explain that?
13.Why can't I see new EMF Mails while I have received EMF notifications?

 
 1. How does the Express-EMF Mail Forwarding Service work?
 
The Express-EMF Mail Forwarding Service is one of the coolest services we offer, which has greatly contributed to our amazingly high success rate! It is dedicated to providing a safe and efficient communication platform for gentlemen to develop in-depth relationship with their potential mates and then lead to marriage. And it helps to solve the problems brought by language barrier, cultural differences, unavailability of computer or computer illiteracy, and increase the probability of getting a satisfying result.

If you want to build up a promising relationship with the lady you selected, our EMF-express service will be the right choice. Click here to have a clearer idea of its uniqueness.
 
 
 2. What are the cool features of this service?
 
Its cool features include: efficient mail delivery, high possibility to get a positive reply, getting over the barriers of language and culture differences, building the lady's confidence through in-depth communication, advice available for bettering relationship, technical problems free and so on.

Want to know more of its features? Click Here.
 
 
 3. How much does it cost to send or receive an EMF mail?
 
One credit will be deducted from your account for each EMF mail you send or receive.
 
 
 4. Why do I need to pay for each reply from my lady?
 
Far more than a communication platform for you to exchange mails with your lady, our EMF service also brings about effective communication that will lead to the establishment of long-term relationship leading to marriage. And as a matter of fact, the credits you pay for the replies mainly goes to the local service providers for the work they do in processing your EMF mails, such as mail translation and delivery.

In the list below, the quality service you can enjoy by paying for each reply from your lady is explained detailedly.

Firstly, you are paying for the translation fee that enables the lady to reply through our system.

One of the cool features of our EMF service is that free translation service will be provided to a lady by way of the local agencies. When you correspond with a lady using our EMF service, she can receive your mail and have her reply translated free of charge. It will not be a burden for a lady to cover the cost in communication any longer.

What's more, if your lady is not quite good at English and there's no assistance available, probably she will feel worried about how to continue correspondence with you. By using our EMF service, she can put her worries aside, as she can talk to you freely and better mutual understanding gradually with the help from the agency.

Secondly, you are paying to enable the lady to enjoy consultation service.

The local service providers are not just dealing with message translation and delivery. More importantly, it is serving as a relationship consultant to ensure your smooth communication with your lady.

It is normal that your lady is not familiar with getting along with people from abroad, and when it comes to develop a relationship leading to marriage, she may feel confused of how to begin and where to start. Then the help from the agency will be quite helpful to her. Most of the agencies are reputable in dating and marriage field and they have accumulated sufficient experience in providing all-round consultation services to their lady members.

Thirdly, you are paying for the in-depth communication that will probably lead to marriage.

Chinese women listed on our site are seriously looking for a long-term relationship and marriage. Compared with ladies of other countries, Chinese ladies tend to be more conservative and serious toward relationship.

Therefore, replying through the EMF service makes her feel more comfortable to express her private feelings, her interest in knowing you more about you and her attitude towards love and marriage. All these greatly contribute to in-depth communication and mutual understanding.

You can understand from the above-mentioned that each of our service providers is committed to providing professional services to tie the knot between you and your lady through our EMF service. In every reply you received, there are passions and painstaking efforts of all the staff of the service provider. Therefore, when you are paying for the lady's EMF reply, you are actually paying for the quality service and the hard work of the service provider.
 
 
 
 5. Can I put down my contact information in my EMF mail?
 
Of course, you can. All your EMF mails are forwarded to the ladies as they are, including the contact information you left in them.

But before you release your contact information to a lady, it's highly recommended that you get informed of the features of Chinese ladies listed below:

1) Most of Chinese ladies' English is not so good.

To be frank, most of the ladies listed on this site don't know much English. Though many ladies have ever learnt English, a compulsory course at school, they almost forget it as it is seldom used during the work.

2) Not all of our ladies can get access to computer and the Internet.

In China, personal computers and the Internet are not as popular as they are in western countries, especially among ladies. Many ladies don't know much about computer or the Internet.

3) Chinese ladies tend to be more prudent and conservative toward marriage.

Though the number increases year by year, there are only a few westerners in China. So, most of Chinese ladies don't have many opportunities to meet and communicate with them, nor do they have a clear understanding of western cultures. Consequently it would be hard for our ladies to make decisions about marriage with you.

Therefore, if you decide to put your contact info in your EMF mail, it is advisable for you to discuss with the lady and get to know her feelings about direct contact. Otherwise, you will put your lady in embarrassment.

Also, please be aware that direct contact often becomes dreary and slow.
There are factors, subjective and objective, that influence smooth communication in direct contact. When you are contacting a lady outside the EMF service, it's up to the lady whether a fast response will be made. Sometimes you just have to wait till she can find the time to give you a reply. If you could not receive any mails from the lady, or are losing her message gradually, your passion or expectation for this relationship will fade away.
 
 
 
 6. Can I attach photos or files in my EMF mails?
 
Yes, you can attach up to 3 photos in JPG formats in your EMF mail.

In order to give your lady a good impression, please do not attach any nude photos in your mail. When you have selected the right photos, it's better modify them into proper size, which will help to get them uploaded faster and sent out with your message smoothly.
 
 
 
 7. How is my message delivered to my lady and how long?
 
When delivering your message, the service provider will get in touch with the lady, and decide a preferable way to forward your message. They will either forward the translated letter to her by email, fax, or tell her the detailed information through telephone, or sometimes the lady will go to the service provider herself to collect the letter. It is the same case if the lady wishes to answer your letter.

We require the local service providers that cooperate with us to deliver your EMF message "As-is" to your ladies. That means, all the information within your message (such as photos, contact information) will be delivered to her.

Chnsweetlady also has imposed a strict requirement on all the service providers that each EMF message be delivered to the expected recipient within 24 hours. You may keep track of the process by the status located in front of your message. If our service provider meets with some difficulty in delivering your message to the lady for some reason, its staff will leave you a remark informing you of the situation. For detailed explanation of the mail status, please refer to your Sent Mails.
 
 
 
 8. How long will I receive the reply from my lady in ordinary case?
 
Generally speaking, you will receive the reply within 72 hours. When your message is forwarded to the lady by the local service provider, she will be expected to provide a reply as soon as possible. After the lady's reply is finished, the service provider will get it translated into English and sent through our mail delivery system.

In case that the lady couldn't reply you in time for personal reasons, or few translators are on duty on public holidays, the agency will leave you a remark informing you of the situation.
 
 
 
 9. How does Chnsweetlady regulate CSL service providers to be honest when handling mails?
 
1) Regular Phone Interview
The Chnsweetlady Staff regularly contact with the ladies to interview them for their opinions toward the service providers. This is an effective way to find out if the service providers have followed our procedures and if they have any misconducts.

2) Random Mail Checking
The Chnsweetlady staff would conduct random checking on the mails that the ladies send out through the service providers, and we will decide if a direct phone interview is necessary to inquire the lady's knowledge of the message.

3) Suspicious Cases
We value our members' opinions and put tremendous efforts on investigating any suspicious cases. We carry out thorough, prompt investigation to find out if the suspicious case is misconduct or only misunderstanding.

4) Staff ID
We monitor all the staff in all our service providers. Each of these staff members has their own User ID which is used for logging into the Chnsweetlady mail forwarding system. Besides, in every mail which the ladies send and receive, there will be an ID of the translator responsible for it. So, if there are any problems with any particular mail, we can find out the related translator rapidly.
 
 
 
 10. How do I do if I prefer not to receive the lady's reply?
 
If you no longer wish to receive a lady's reply from our site, there's Block List function that you might use. However, we recommend you not to add your lady into your block list without any signs, as it will leave a very negative impression on the lady and do harm to your further communication.

In case you consider that the lady is unsuitable and it is hard to carry on your relationship, it is suggested that you tell the lady your true feelings and your decision. It is probably that the lady can understand and appreciate your decision. Then you may add the lady's ID to your Block List.

Once you have done that, our system will automatically block her mails to you, which means that, when her mails are about to send, a warning message will appear telling the service provider that you no longer wish to receive her mails.

On the other hand, if you wish to lower your spending on exchanging EMF Mails, you may discuss this issue with your lady and check carefully whether she has access to the Internet, whether she can communicate in English, and what's more, how she feels about personal contact at the early stage of communication. When you have better understanding of how she feels and what her situation is, you may decide what the best way to continue correspondence is.
 
 
 
 11. Can I ask for the return of my credit if I feel dissatisfied with the reply from my lady?
 
The lady's EMF response is delivered to you on "As-Is" basis by the local service provider. If you are feeling unhappy for the lady's response, please kindly check our Refund Policy if it meets with the terms. We will consider whether your credit will be returned based on this policy.

If you have any questions about the reply you got from the lady, we advise you to "Rate Your Satisfaction" for the work done by the service provider through choosing from the options available in the survey under the message content. By doing so, you may also let us know your comment about this message so that we could check with the related service provider and get the real situation. They will be most pleased to clear away any possible misunderstandings that arise from the communication between you and your lady.
 
 
 
 12. I observed that there is a word limit for my EMF mail, could you explain that?
 
Our system limits the length of each EMF mail to 6000 characters. This is a recent adjustment we made based on the feedbacks from our service providers.

As you know, there are responsible translators inside each of the service providers that we are cooperating with. They help translate clients' messages into Chinese, notify ladies of their content, and then translate ladies' responses into English. To ensure the quality of our email translation service, we need to set an acceptable word limit to the EMF message.

Besides, this words limitation would also help the translator handle the letter faster, which accordingly boosts communication between the ladies and the gentlemen.
 
 
 
 13. Why can't I see new EMF Mails while I have received EMF notifications?
 
Our notification email for EMF letter, which is automatically generated by our system, might occasionally arrives a little later than the ladies' EMF message itself does. In that case, please kindly check the corresonding EMF letter from the lady that our notification email is notifying of. You might have already read it before you received the notification email.

Another possibility is that our service provider might have accidentally made a computer operation mistake when sending you a lady's EMF mail, and immediately that letter has been hidden from your account so as not to cause you any confusion.

For the above cases, you are kindly advised to have a check over your credit history. If you have any confusion, you may Contact Us.